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Be honest.  What would his legitimate complaints be about you?  Before anybody gets divorced they should be brutally honest about themselves as well. It is a rare and valuable women that can own the defects they bring to a relationship. What does the man need or want that you can't or are unwilling to bring to the relationship ?

You listed your issues with him very well but they sound like symptoms of a deeper issue.[/quote]

OP here. Thanks for your replies.

To PP, yes, you are right, I also have to consider what I am lacking. Here is what my husband criticizes about me (all true):

- I have low sexual drive, he has a very high one (I didn't know this before the marriage because he never complained about the frequency).

- Since our child was born I don't have the same patience with him as before.

- He doesn't feel that I respect him.

- We have saved very little money so far because my grad school was very expensive and it's all paid for.

- I got conned by a contractor and we lost a significant amount of money (about to sue now).
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