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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it depends on how vehemently either one of them feels. I was adamant about wanting 3-4 kids before marriage, but we have two and it's kicking my butt. So, I think we will settle at 2. My husband was always in the 2-3 camp; since we both were flexible and wanted to see how it went, that's what we did. He's good with 2 as well (at least right now).[/quote] This. My DH has always thought 2 sounded good. At times I've thought 3 or 4 sounded good. Now that we actually HAVE kids, two may very well be where we stop. Actually doing the work, and being 10 years older, really is different. But even though at times I've thought more sounded good, I'd never actually decide that without my partner. If he says two is all her can handle, that's the end of the discussion. No way I'd have a 3rd without him 100% on board. [/quote]
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