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[quote=Anonymous]And it is killing me. I know he does not love me, but all I want is to raise my kids and retire. He has publicly undermined me and on two occasions, other people have seen it, making me look bad. The latest, after a discussion with a sibling about how tired I am, after working 60 + erratic hours a week, long commute, I decided that I need more help. I can't afford to pay the maid more, so I thought about asking her to shift her focus from my kids' rooms and bathrooms to my laundry. This would mean that my kids who are teens, would have to clean their own spaces. When I told my husband, he looked skeptical and said that the kids have hard lives too, school and sports. This was typical for him, but nauseating for me. My husband does not know any woman who works as hard as I do. I work harder than he does. It's like he is out to get me. [/quote]
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