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[quote=Anonymous]I just came back from a 10 day business trip, and I realize I did not miss DH at all and in some ways was dreading coming home. We had had our share of issues, including a period of extended unemployment on his behalf, but we have always pulled together, and I have done what I can to make our marriage work, especially for DS's sake. I think i have been in denial how much impact these episodes have had on us.

I think what is upsetting is that DH is finally in a good job, but he still makes minimal efforts in many areas of his life. He has an unkempt beard, which I find very unattractive, but he does nothing about, and he is also a very sloppy dresser. We finally have a house, but he does nothing for upkeep or repair. He loves our DS very much, but is checked out from him quite a bit. He is generally content to tread water in many areas. I know I am not a prize package either, but I have tried to respond to concerns when he raises them.

I am wondering whether I should raise this or just leave it alone. The whole situation simply makes me sad.

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