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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We're staying at my son's house for a few weeks and they have two pre-schoolers. He hasn't provided much in terms of how to help or what their routines are, but I can observe and know I usually cook dinners as they both work full-time. 
Last extended visit, the kids were even younger but now they are at the stage where they act up a lot, ask for special treats, push the boundaries and such.  Their behavior seems extra whiny and difficult when we're around or my son is around. Not the nanny or mom. 
Is there anything we should or should not do?   [/quote]

Keep in mind that the simple fact of you being there disrupts their routine, and kids tend to act out when their routines are disrupted, particularly at that age.

Ask your son what his family needs from you while you are staying there. Ask specifically about what kinds of dinners they would like. Maybe your son remembers certain food items fondly from childhood but doesn't know how to make them. Maybe they would all really love more complicated meals but never have the time.

As for the kids, you should be very clear that your role is not disciplinarian. You should avoid commenting on the kids' behavior or the way their parents handle it. You should ask what the rules are about giving them special treats and then not break those rules.

Basically, be courteous and ask your son and his wife for guidance about how to interact with their children.[/quote]

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