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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My older sister comes to my house and says things like this:

- It looks like the crab grass is taking over your lawn, you should try this product ____.
- You should replace those _________ with some _____.
- Don't you dust your floor molding when you vacuum?
- Your furniture needs leather conditioner, teak oil, or __________
- Do even dust your shades?
- You make coffee with tap water, I use bottled water, it tastes better.
- Your dogs fur is on my pants, does it get onto everything? How can you have people over?
- Your house smells like ____.
- You should upgrade your carpets, tiles, _____
- I don't like the taste of your _________, I use _________.
- Maybe you should buy a _____ vacuum, or hire ______ maid service.

I tell her to shut up all the time. But the critique disguised as conversation hurts my feelings and makes me feel bad about the way I keep my home. I should add that my older sister has been jealous of me all our lives because she is not attractive. She is bullying me to make herself feel better, I get that. I wouldn't dream of telling her that she should wear different clothes or let her hair grow out or put on some makeup. She is so toxic that I dread her visits.

WWYD?
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WWID? Get some therapy. OP, you're obviously fishing for the "she's jealous of your and your life" comment to make you feel better. Get lost :mrgreen: [/quote]

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