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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] their almost constant rudeness. (Coming and going with no greeting or comment, refusing to converse at family meals, swearing...) [/quote] OP, Depending on how often they ignore you and how bad the swearing is, yes, it could indeed be very rude of them. However I imagine that they are not happy at having to depend on you in their 20s, and that your personality is such that you probably don't make it easy for them and increase their level of stress. I'm not trying to justify their actions, but I'm pointing to circumstances that make your current relationship very challenging. It would have been much better had you treated them correctly as children, and if they were reasonably financially independent at their age. When they move out and are able to provide for themselves and their children, I am sure they will treat you better. Distance, and less stress! Don't expect apologies, though.[/quote]
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