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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband works 80 hours a week.   Travels 2 times a month.   In his "down time" meaning  when he is home, he could spend all is time watching tv, iPad or periodically going to the gym.   [b]I don't care that he doesn't want to spend time with me. [/b] I just hate that my 2 kids see this.   He's not a mean Dad, but an extremely vacant and distracted one.   All parenting  and related decisions are on me.  All grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, bills are on me.  I work and have flexible hours which I am grateful for.  I am just so sad.  So incredibly sad.  I know I sound very self indulgent but I can't  stop crying today.   And I need to pull myself together and make it as good as I can for the kids.[/quote]

This is a giant red flag.  You need to have a serious conversation with him and if nothing changes, consider divorce.  That is not a way to live your life.  I grew up with parents who did not get along at all and were supremely unhappy but stayed together for the kids, and we all knew they didn't get along and it was awful.  Your kids will pick up on this if they haven't already.[/quote]

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