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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I came to a similar crossroads. What I wound up saying to him is "you are creating a situation where if we were to divorce, nothing in my life would change. It would be exactly as it is now, except I wouldn't have to concern myself with your whereabouts." That sort of shook him up, knowing that all he was was a paycheck. And who wants to be just that? [/quote] This. OP, you need to sit your husband down and have this conversation. If he can't be present, then find someone for you and your kids that can be present. There's no way I'd put up with an absent spouse like that. No amount of money is worth it. Our combined HHI is under $200K here in DC, and that's fine. We both spend time together and with our kids. [/quote]
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