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[quote=Anonymous]Did he decide on this schedule and job on his own or is it something you decided was right for the family you two decided to have together. It sounds like you need to insist on a reevaluation because it is not working for you. You have the right to say it is not working for you and he has the right to say too bad. What he cannot do is dictate what you decide to do if he can only think of himself and his needs. I speak from experience. I agreed to a job choice my DH took that became unsustainable. Luckily for us - my husband valued me, our kids, our family so that even though he loved his job and was skyrocketing in his career he made the change. Did not happen overnight and it was a long, lonely, difficult transition but I truly would have left marriage if he did not see that our partnership demanded it. (Leaving would have had its own traumas but I was losing myself in a joyless life being almost reduced to a nanny/housekeeper/single working mom[/quote]
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