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[quote=Anonymous]Basically she has told her entire side of the family and my Mom, everyone except me. I don't live locally. It's been a month now, since everyone else was told. When she does finally decide I'm worthy of the news I know I should just congratulate her, but I really want to say "Congrats! Mom told me a month ago when you told everyone else in the family".

It would be different if it was my brother told my Mom and not me, but she went out of her way to tell my Mom (who I talk to every day so of course she told me) and has purposely excluded me. This is also the same SIL who planned my nieces birthday party when my flight was still in the air, so I couldn't attend. I had bought my flight 3 months in advance and live in a different country. My brother was upset about that, so i guess this is my punishment? My SIL goes by the 12 week rule to announce her pregnancy, yet it has been 12 weeks now and everyone knows except me. It's really kind of bizarre. My brother isn't allowed to tell anyone (I know this from her last pregnancy) so if she had not told my Mom (who she hates) this wouldn't bother me so much.

SIL always talks about how she is all about family, and when she does something shitty she says oh you're wrong I'd never do that to family. I truly believe that she is all about family- her family. So I need to just not say anything when she decides I'm worthy of hearing the good news, right? [/quote]

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