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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry you feel this way. It's your issue and I suggest, kindly, that you suck it up. My ILs, with whom I thought I had a good relationship, recently called me a bimbo and baby-killer bc I was a Hillary supporter. So there's that.[/quote]

My FIL, whom I thought I had fine relationship with, told me on Wednesday that DH started being stressed since he married me!  We have been married for 23 years, and FIL has no idea what he is talking about.  He was always in debt and he is the reason my DH feels stressed about the money. Even at age 20, he lent his parents 20K to pay off their credit cards and has fixed everything for his Dad and his mom forever,(even as a teen he was fixing their cars) as his Dad never did and couldn't afford to have it done. When they were kids he tore the carpet in the living room, and didn't replace it for 15 years, hence DH was embarrassed to even have friends over. DH didn't go to college right away, way before he met me, because his Dad told him it is better to have a paying job in construction.  He then went on to pay for college for his two younger kids.  And I still overlook everything he says, he is a widower now, and even tell DH when his Dad irritates him, not to get into fight with him. OP, you need to tell us what is really the issue here?[/quote]

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