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[quote=Anonymous][quote=mshakespeare][quote=Anonymous]I was with a woman like this, and I left (took me a long time though). I don't know if she changed, or just was more successful at trapping the next guy. I hope she changed, but I doubt it, because I don't think she could ever admit to herself that she was abusive. And that's the answer to the question: abusers are often not really aware they are the villain; they often see themselves as and act out of a sense of being the victim. [/quote] I disagree... FEMALE abusers don't think of themselves as abusers - because society tells them they can't be abusers - because men are MEN and what women could ever HURT a man - as if that is the basis of abuse. Men however, EVERYTHING they do is abuse because they are bigger, because they are men... So, the burden of abuse is really a sexist issue - with women not being capable of abuse.[/quote] That's some seriously tortured MRA claptrap right there. The topic of female abusers falls under the category of "duly noted." It does not merit equal time with the broader discussion about domestic abuse.[/quote]
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