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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can relate. I had this exact issue with an Asian BF. He'd stare openly at all women, and Asian women were goddesses of perfection in every aspect, from their looks to how they treated a man. And in his culture, underneath the "family first" facade, the unfortunate norm was that men were expected to cheat, and women put up with it and blamed themselves.

Just do yourself a favor and drop him. If he makes you feel this way, and up until now you've been a secure person, it's HIM, and your gut is telling you the right thing. I wish I'd listened to my gut back then, when I'd feel humiliated by his staring at women, and sometimes the women would catch my eye and give me this look of pity, like, "I can't believe your asshole boyfriend treats you this way."[/quote]

LOL - people check people out. If that makes you insecure - then you probably need to focus on bettering yourself and figuring out why you are insecure. You probably become insecure when your significant other watches porn.

Instead of blaming the boyfriend, maybe you should give advice that is going to help this young lady.

OP - while this man may look at other women, I think you really need to take the time to figure out what makes you insecure. Quite frankly, if you were secure to begin with, no one would make you feel otherwise. And if you were really secure, you wouldn't be in this position in the first place.

Think about what makes this boyfriend different from others... Is he more successful? More attractive? More intelligent? Is the nature of your relationship different? Do you care more about this one than others in the past?

You also want to start thinking about why you don't feel good enough for him or why you feel as though you don't deserve him.

The fact that you see an attractive person and that ruins your night - that is YOUR issue - not his.[/quote]

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