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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm single female and about to turn 50 and I'm considered to be quite attractive. I'm friends with a couple in their late 50's. We are not extremely close but socialize a few times a year for the last 7-10 years so we know each other quite well. Recently the wife was out of town and the husband called me to invite me to dinner. I was surprised by the call given that we are not close friends so I was politely trying to say no when he said "But I really thought there was a connection between us." That's when my radar went off and i quickly said thanks but no thanks. A few days ago I got a voice mail from his wife wanting to know about this dinner thing with her husband. He must have said something to her out of concern that I would rat him out. How do I respond?

I'm close friends with another couple and the wife is away a lot in the winter and she encourages me to have dinner with her DH once in a while so he has a decent meal. He's a great guy who adores his wife and most of our conversation is about her, their kids and now their grandkids. Why are some men sleaze balls and others are good guys? [/quote]

Response to the wife is easy.  Just state the FACTS, without speculation or inference.  In other words, "Sam invited me to dinner.  I declined b/c I view us as a group of friends."

If she asks about his motivation, you say that you don't have any idea.  "All I know is that he invited me to dinner."

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