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Reply to "DH and I constantly fighting over child care - how do you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP here -- thanks for all of the feedback and advice. I just assumed everyone uses a schedule -- interesting to hear otherwise. We do often do things together on the weekends, and whoever's "time" it is just gets absorbed into the activity. DH has said several times that he thinks I'm obsessed with "fairness". I suppose this is true, and I do think that without a schedule I will end up doing the vast majority of the child care. He says that over time it will even out, but he is naturally more social than I am and has lots more outside activities than I do (or want), and so I don't think it will even out over time. Keeping a list of hours "worked" seems even worse (I'd like it, but DH would be beside himself). I'm interested to hear if others have this "issue" with fairness, or if you think I just need to get over this. I've tried, but every time the thought that the woman just needs to "suck it up" just infuriates me. [/quote]
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