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[quote=Anonymous]DS is now 8 months old, and there can't be a week that goes by when DH and I don't have a serious fight about child care. I created a schedule where we split weekends into four sections (I do half Sat and half Sun) and night/mornings. DH reviewed it and agreed. I do about 60% of the time, and I'm ok with that. But, not two days goes by when DH doesn't ask whether I "want" to take DS for a night/couple hours, etc. when it's his time. DH says that he hates having to "live by a schedule". And, I hate having to justify my desire for free time every weekend. I don't want this to be a debate every single weekend. I want a schedule so I can plan and not have to decide whose activities are more "worthy" each weekend. DH says it feels too rigid for him and he needs flexibility during the days to decide what he wants to do each day. We can't stop fighting about this. What do do? Is it time for a marriage counselor, or is there some other solution?[/quote]
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