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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing: kids in their teens need boundaries (rules, structures, expectations) AND attunement to their needs. Just implementing new rules is not going to cut it. At best, you'll reap resentment and anger from your daughter. You need to start by figuring out what your daughter is trying to communicate through her behavior. Sit down with her and talk about what you've noticed. Have some NONJUDGMENTAL conversations about what she believes and values. Practice validation of her feelings. When you start from that baseline of listening and trust, you have a better chance. And bonus: you'll diminish your own feelings of fear and resentment.[/quote] Very helpful, thank you! I will try to talk to her, although the standard answer is " I don't know" [/quote]
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