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Reply to "Do you pay for IVF or do you and your partner split the cost? Wondering if I need a reality check"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I married a wonderful, kind man three years ago who had two children from a previous marriage. He knew I wanted a child and was supportive, but we failed to get pregnant naturally. When the issue of IVF came up, he asked me to cover the costs as he was paying child support for his two children Flash forward 18 months, we're still trying IVF, and I'm wondering if I've been a fool to cash in my retirement savings to pay for this. We've never argued about this. I want a child, so part of me thinks I shouldn't squabble over who pays for the process. But another part of me feels it's not all that fair. [/quote] i find it kind of weird that you and your husband have separate finances to that extent. my husband and i also have separate bank accounts and technically he pays for some things an and i pay for others, but there is nowhere that sense that it's one person bearing the cost as opposed to other. [/quote]
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