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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH has been pleasuring himself in our bed in the middle of the night.  The very slight shaking has woken me up several times in the last month.  I pretend to be asleep and haven't said anything. I don't have a problem with masturbation, it just seems like it should be done in private and it's not something we do together or really discuss.  I'm not sure why this has started after 11 years either.  We have sex once or twice a week.

I don't want this to turn explicit,I just want to know if this is normal?  Should I confront him?[/quote]
It's not normal for you, but it's certainly normal for many other couples. If you have sex with each other, why is masturbation necessarily "private"? Your whole tone of "confronting" him sounds very off. It's fine if you're not comfortable with it, but he's not committing a crime. If you want to know what's going on, approach him with an open mind and an attitude of wanting him to be happy, not with an agenda of judging and shaming.[/quote]

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