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[quote=Anonymous]DH often makes critical comments- for example, he'll keep asking me for days why I forgot a simple task like washing a cup out, or if we have guests over, once they leave he'll immediately point out the things I did wrong. He never says things in a harsh tone, and it's not overtly critical, but it wears me down. I've asked him to stop and he won't. We've tried counseling and it helped some, but it's still an almost daily occurance. I'm certain he's not going to change and I won't separate/divorce because we have kids. And it's not that I'm totally absent minded and forget to do everything; he just expects absolute perfection, which I can't do. So I need to figure out how to deal with my reaction or else I'm going to go bonkers. Any advice on how to handle this? I know it's pretty benign, but being asked daily about something I did a week ago is draining. [/quote]
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