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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a mom to 2 foster kids, a 14 y/o and an 8 y/o with nonverbal autism and CP. They are both biological siblings. 14 y/o has left marks, pushed him down, scratched him, hit him. we only know what happens when it's in view of the cameras.. otherwise he will lie and say he doesn't know what happened and will still lie when we show him the videos. But today after I confronted him about abuse and he went on a rant that this is "his" brother and since I'm not biologically related what he does to his brother is up to him. He has been kicked out of previous foster homes for abusing his brother, but [b]the CW keeps placing them together for whatever reason[/b]. I call the police who just tell him to stop and then leave. Biomom is in jail and fad has supervised visitation Mon Wed Fri after school. There is a supervisor there who supervises dad but allows 14 y/o and 8 y/o unsupervised together. [b]I pointed out clear signs pf physical abuse to the CW and she does nothing. [/b]I watch them at home closely but I can't keep an eye on them 24/7. He will take whatever opportunity given to abuse his younger brother. [b]If I remove them from my care CW will still place them together.[/b][/quote] Talk to the supervisor of your CW person, citing these incidents. Document everything- when people come for meetings, have them sign something. Get the supervisor's name and number and keep calling her. Document everything to your supervising agency. [/quote]
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