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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]12:05 again. If it's not enough to just do the right thing, know this: if you have an affair, it will not end well, no matter how it goes. If one of you falls for the other, but it's not reciprocated - no good. If either of your spouses find out - no good. If you fall in love with each other and decide to divorce your respective spouses, you will always have guilt, and probably the scorn of more than a few people. There is no positive outcome from an affair, ultimately.

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This. Exactly. You don't mention children, but if you have children, they will find out sooner or later and you will lose their respect for the rest of your life. And are you ready for friends, family, co-workers, etc. to whisper behind your back until the end of time that you are cheater? For scandal to follow you like a cloud? Many friends will have nothing to do with you once they know.

If you are truly happily married, then you cannot possibly inflict such pain on your husband. Yes, you are under the influence of dopamine now, and it is addictive the way it makes your mind think. You need to channel your energy toward your marriage. Talk to a priest, talk to a counselor. But there are NO good outcomes from an affair. Repeat after me: It is NEVER worth it if you truly care about the people (spouse + kids) that you are cheating on.

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