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[quote=Anonymous]Divorced woman , late 40's with two teenagers....  I've been dating now for three years.    Mostly online but a few guys I met in real life.        I have probably been out with at least 30 men.     Most just first dates.   A few lasted maybe a month.  Two lasted three months.     I have a very high sex drive and sex is very important to me in a relationship.  With most men I've dated I've had sex on the second or third date.  My philosophy has been that if we aren't sexually compatible I would rather find out sooner rather than later.     The sex was great with the two men I dated last year for about 3 months each.    By three months however when I had gotten to know them better I realized the sex was the reason I continued to date them because we really turned out to be incompatible in almost every other area.

So for 2017 I decided to take a new approach and not rush into sex.   I've been dating two men now for about a month and have been seeing them once or twice a week.    Just this week it started to get physical and it turns out both of them have low sex drive issues and can't currently achieve or sustain an erection.     I am beyond frustrated and disappointed and am thinking I should go back to my old MO.

The men are in their late 40's/early 50's.   Is the case with a lot of the men out there or am I just really unlucky!?   I really like them both a lot in every other respect.

Ugh.  [/quote]

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