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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My fiance and I are supposed to get married in May. Originally we were going to get married next month, but we rescheduled the date because my fiance wanted to do it when it's warmer so the reception can be outdoors. Well now he's asking if we can put the wedding off until sometime next year. I asked him why and he told me because his family doesn't want him to marry me and some have threatened not to come to the wedding. They feel that we're rushing into it (we've been dating for three years) and because I have a child. I'm concerned that if he's letting his family control his actions over the wedding who know what else they'll try to control in his life. I'm wondering if I should call the whole thing off and let him grow up a bit. I've been down this road before and I don't want to set myself up for another failed marriage. [/quote]

I'm really sorry.  I think your concerns are quite valid.  How will waiting another year make things better for his family - and this wedding isn't about them, it's about the two of you.  That he's willing to let his family dictate his marriage choices doesn't bode well for you.  And, I'd be suspect of his reason to postpone it the first time.

I believe you should break things off.  You and your DC deserve better.  Hugs.[/quote]

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