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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi everyone: I'm the OP. Thx for your replies. I did talk about the ethical aspect of the puppy and he seems to feel bad for a bit, but then doesn't want to deal with doing it. She is, to be clear, a total spaz. At this point, she isn't cuddling until she has run like a maniac. But he's not a mean jerk-- he is just too into wanting to relax and prob be on his phone. Regardless, he is going to need to do this or the phone is gone and I am promising myself I will stick to this. He is bright, but we are investigating possible ADHD  inattention. Btw: some of his grades do count in 7th bc he is in a couple advanced classes:( It's hard to do homework later at night bc he has several sports in the evenings. I don't really want to take those away bc I think he needs to run and exercise. So I really need him to start after a bit of chill time. His friends are all very smart, but they are all addicted to their phones. He's not allowed to play Xbox on weekdays and he knows that. I just need him to care for the dog, start some work and I guess have some chill time before sports etc. thx for listening. The only motivation, albeit negative, is taking away his phone and saying he can't be social on the weekends. Finally, public school is way harder than when I was a kid!!!! [/quote]

OP. When we were in your shoes, I started coming home from work earlier to make sure he got done what he needed.  Yeah, it is hard. I cut my hours and got up earlier.

Also, and I'm not kidding:  If you can't get decent care for your puppy from your son, then you need to buy it with a dog walker or give the dog up to a rescue.  You seem to be heading down the path of creating an awful and unhappy dog.

Don't worry about his grades counting. You have bigger issues to worry about if you want his high school transcript to look good.[/quote]

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