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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does your DH have to say, for starters? The best thing is to have fewer and/or shorter visits. To keep you from going crazy--point that out to DH, that if things keep up as they are, you won't want to see them at all, so you need help reducing time to a point that you can stand.[/quote] She also drives him insane. He has asked them to leave early a couple of times. We also have had a very high stress year which doesn't help. One thing when they are here, I usually try not to bitch to my husband about them because it riles him up and then we are both miserable. I would like to get to the point where I'm okay with saying "that's not okay with me" and let her reactions be hers and not take them on or feel badly as long as they are done with kindness. I hate how I'm sitting here seething and thinking of all the hints I should have said to stick up for myself. [/quote]
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