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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry for your loss OP.  I had 4 miscarriages several years ago so I know the feeling.  It sucks, there's no way around that fact.

This may not be helpful right now, but the fact that you are able to get pregnant multiple times is a positive sign.  It could be that you have had some bad eggs that have resulted in the miscarriages.  If you are willing to keep trying you have a good chance of having a successful pregnancy.

What helped me after multiple miscarriages was not getting too excited when I did get pregnant again.  I was happy but, didn't tell anyone (except dr and husband).  DUring the first trimester I considered myself 'sort of pregnant'.  I know it seems silly because you either are or you're not, but after so many losses I just felt that way.  I didn't get emotionally attached or excited until I made it past the thirteenth week.

Good luck to you OP.  I hope it works out

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I agree with this except for the part about bad eggs. 5 miscarriages in a row is probably a sign of some other issues. If so many of her eggs were that bad she probably wouldn't be able to get pregnant in the first place even with IVF.

I also had many miscarriages and I took the same approach as pp. After the second miscarriage I stopped getting excited and just lived day to day.

I'm so sorry for your losses :-( [/quote]

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