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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not Lyme disease, she's been checking out, i.e. senior-itis, and it's been a constant source of drama in the house. I never trust the grades prior to exams because teachers tend to inflate them with 100%-score busy work and easy projects.

Note, I think senior-itis is fine, within reason, for kids that have college plans solidified. She doesn't and probably just closed a lot of doors.[/quote]

I'd calm down, OP. Getting upset or punishing her isn't going to do anything. My older DD had a period of senioritis when she'd been accepted to colleges, and decided she didn't want to do any work. But it was SECOND semester of senior year, not first. We had a little chat with her, and she pulled herself together.

You may need a family counselor to sort things out. If you are pressuring her too much, there may be deeper issues you all need to sort out.  Kids don't always want the same things their parents want for them, and they don't realize how much harm they are doing to themselves when they stop studying. There's still time to apply to more colleges. We just got an email from Gettysburg college that they are extending their application deadline. If she's aiming for top schools, she's probably screwed herself, but so what? There are lots of great schools that will accept her now, even if they dont' have top "names". Look around and let go of your expectations for your daughter. She can be a star at a less competitive school, then, if she wants HYPS, she can work hard and transfer into one of the really top ones. Give her that choice. [/quote]

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