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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This may not be a popular opinion, but I think we've emphasized sexuality, especially for younger kids, that we haven't left room to recognize that you can have feelings of friendship and affection for someone, without it being about sex.

I consider myself gay-friendly and open to people of varying orientations, but it bothers me that a 12 or 13 year old feels pressured to put a sexual label on their feelings.  I'm not saying that's what you're doing, op, but I think it's a pressure that surrounds all our kids these days.  [/quote]

Just to chime in as an adult woman. At many points in my life I've felt strong physical attraction to certain women. I don't have a type...exactly. But, here I am living a hetero life with no interest in pursuing a relationship/romance/night with another woman. I grew up in a time when we didn't have to label who we were at every step. This very well may be step in a coming out process. No doubt. And, congrats again on having such a trusting relationship with your DC that they feel they can share these feelings with you. Please leave room and remain guided by DC's path. My earliest crush was in second grade. We even kissed in the closet when the other kids were on the playground. It wouldn't have occurred to me to label myself then, or in high school when I crushed on a girl with cornflower hair (the one who breaks the type). College was a huge opportunity to enjoy the company of women (think Vassar or Smith). Nope. It never happened for me. Maybe this is some of what people refer to as the fluidity of sexuality? Allow that maybe your DC is going through the same. You follow, wherever it may lead.

Just my two cents.
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100% agree and could have wrote it myself. But really OP. Be proud. I know a mom who still won't accept her son is gay. He is 31 and came out at 15. Your kid is lucky to have your support.[/quote]

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