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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I did online dating. I said upfront that [b]I was interested in relationships where marriage was a possibility[/b]. If people wanted to stay casual only, no chance of something serious, I wasn't interested. Been married 13 years now.[/quote] +1. Phrasing it like this is a good idea. Do not say "I want marriage and kids within 5 years," or you will definitely sound crazy. No one likes to be put on a deadline, especially by someone they just met. It's also an indication to them that you might not be flexible---that you're going to be the type of partner who isn't willing to consider their desires. Also, wouldn't you want to bend a little if it was for the right person? If your soulmate needed more time, and you, say, could have marriage and kids within 7 years or 10 years, wouldn't that be better than rushing to get married, having a kid and divorcing in five years?[/quote]
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