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[quote=Anonymous]Yes and no. The pressure I put on myself is from my own head and insecurities. I had some health issues following DS' birth and put on weight. Was a size 8 when DH and I got together, was a size 16 at my highest. After my health issues were sorted 2.5 years later, it took another year to get down to the size I was when I met DH. Throughout the whole time dh always told me how beautiful I was and our sex life was unchanged. Whenever I'd get down he'd always say "do you know why I always hold your hand in public or put my arm around you? Because I'm proud to be seen with you ". So is DH glad I'm back to an 8? I'm sure. But I'm also confident that his love and attraction to me is not hinged on my size. It helps that he put on weight too and he's already into the big boobs , hips, curves thing. But I have a history of eating disorders and borderline BDD, so despite what DH says, I put the pressure on myself. [/quote]
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