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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, it dramatically improved my marriage. When I stopped feeling like I had any role in my husband's happiness, I realized there was way, way more space for my own. If I wanted to see a movie and he didn't, I didn't view it as a rejection of me; I saw the movie and kept it moving. When I wanted something done around the house, I did it. If I made a dinner or did something thoughtful, I didn't do it expecting any kudos or thanks. I did it because I wanted to try the recipe, buy the gift, etc. When I started doing this, the strangest thing happened. My husband became more thoughtful, attentive, and grateful. It was like a switch happened. I appreciate the consideration now, but I don't NEED him to be happy. I just am.[/quote]
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