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[quote=Anonymous]It has helped me let some of the little things go. It also has helped me make it clear where I just am or am not going to do something, and that's my firm stand on it--so it probably has helped HIM see the big things and let the little things go...because now I'm so generally easygoing that when I do put my foot down, he gets that it is a "final answer." Also, when he sees me doing more-more-more without waiting for him or expecting him to do it, it makes him want to do more. So instead of fighting about laundry, he sees that I do way more on that front and makes a point to pitch in. Instead of fighting about making dinners, he just sees that I cook about four times a week, and serve leftovers...and some nights he comes home, and I say there is "kid food" and leftovers and nothing else, and he realizes he can eat what is there or cook something. It's not a magic cure-all, but I think I'm happier and more relaxed.[/quote]
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