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[quote=Anonymous]We always just say thank you. When a family member or other gift giver follows up we say "He can't wait to use it!"  Usually that is enough to make the giver feel appreciated. We never give negative feedback about a gift unless the giver solicits it. "I hope it's not too advanced." In that case we might say it's a little advanced for independent play but DS will surely be able to enjoy it with our help. If MIL lives far away and mentions it again, say he enjoyed it and leave it at that. We have even gone so far as to open toys and pose with them to show our appreciation even if DS didn't love it or it wasn't really a good fit. It's the thought that counts and we just want to be appreciative.

I know there are a few insufferable ILs out there but I don't think your MIL sounds that bad. My MIL shows ZERO interest in our kids. Gifts are an impersonal $25 Amazon gift card for every Christmas and birthday. She gives the same exact gift to all 10 grandkids. I would LOVE for her to try to pick something. Personally, I spend a lot of time and effort purchasing gifts for my nieces and nephews and assume other gift givers have the best of intentions. [/quote]

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