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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you just write "sorry no siblings" it sounds rude and exclusionary. If you word it slightly more gently, like "I'm sorry we're unable to accommodate siblings this year due to a maximum head-count on activities" Or, "We normally love it when siblings attend, but this year its not possible, sorry!"[/quote] This is ridiculous. "No siblings, please" is fine. Don't say "sorry." Makes you look like a doormat.[/quote] I don't agree that any of these makes the OP look like a doormat... a doormat? From a party invitation?? Uh, I think that's a bit much. I personally think it makes her seem considerate & kind (especially if in years past the siblings have ALWAYS been invited!). This explains that it's nothing personal & it's not THEIR particular sibling that you don't want there (because I imagine most of the parents will wonder if it's THEIR kid that caused you to write no siblings... parents are neurotic :mrgreen: ). Honestly, I'd go with the "I'm sorry we're unable to accommodate siblings this year due to a maximum head-count on activities". That gets the point across without any of the worry that you'll cause hurt feelings or start drama that wasn't there to begin with. [/quote]
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