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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DW and I are 40-50's with 2 children.  Early in our relationship and marriage, sex was freaky.  Not threesomes and BDSM freaky, but beyond vanilla.  Over time, DW seems to be less interested in freaky and more vanilla.  For example, in our 20's she'd be all over a nude beach.  Today, if we get it on, she draws all the curtains, even if we're at a hotel.

For clarity, I get enough and of enough variety that I'm happy.  But I do miss the old days at times.

For those with reasonably healthy sex lives, did you see a shift to more conservative as you aged?[/quote]

When we were young and dumb we all did crazier things - backyard sex, road head etc. When your kids become teenagers and young adults you hope that they are not as crazy as we were, but they likely are. Dealing with all of that can easily suppress freaky-ness. No doubt being with one person for 20 years can make things very predictable and less adventuresome. If you miss the old days start using your imagination and come up with ideas or locations that your wife might consider "age appropriate'" but create some spark. We installed a hot tub right off our MBR and once in awhile jump in for something other than dealing with sore muscles. My DW really gets into hotel sex (girl loves the Four Seasons!) and we get started in the elevator. We've always had a healthy sex life albeit somewhat vanilla but changing location and adding in some spontaneity has been effective. Be happy you have a healthy sex life. You are in the minority on DCum! [/quote]

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