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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did he see your vagina during childbirth? Some men can't come back from that[/quote]

JFC...Read. This has happened to him before.  OP, does it seem like he wants to try?    Send the kids away for the weekend.  Book a hotel room (if finances are tight, stay home but that can lend itself to feeling like you have to do things around the house). Work on being intimate but not just with sex. Massage each other, tease each other. Get to know your bodies again.  See how he responds.  On threads where the wife has lost desire, there is a lot of advice to fake it until you get back into it.  Obviously it's harder for a guy to fake it but it's worth a try.  In addition to getting him tested, would you be open to seeing a sex therapist?   My friend's husband went through ED at 33 because of life stresses. They went to a sex therapist and it worked wonders.  And it's not all about talking about sex but also connecting on a deeper level, something that many of us have let lapse even if we have a good sex life and a good marriage.

It's totally fine to feel angry. But just being open with him is a big step.  Now move on to the next step of figuring out what you can do.to fix it [/quote]

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