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[quote=Anonymous]If he's the one who told you he was 43, and you know for certain that he lied (as opposed to hearing his age second hand from someone else), that alone is reason to reconsider seeing him at all. If he has lied about his age to you, he easily could be lying about many other things of much greater importance.

And to look at it from the other side: If you hang out with him etc. you are leading him on, frankly, and letting him think you might be interested in more. Whether "more" would mean a relationship (which you clearly don't want, because you can't have a real relationship that involves never being seen together, ever) or whether "more" would mean just sex (which you also don't want, right? Since he turns you off physically with his beer belly?) -- either way, just tell him you've enjoyed chatting with him but you're not interested in continuing to stay in contact with him.

Don't "ghost" him and just disappear and stop answering all communications. That would be immature. Tell him that you are moving on and then move on. But you might want to take it all as a lesson that online, you are always going to get what they want you to hear and see. If you have strong preferences about age and build, maybe meeting guys in real life through activities that interest both of you would be better than meeting them online.[/quote]

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