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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I have offered ex-DH to stop with the child support.  His money really doesn't make a difference one way or another.  Besides, next year DS will stick with only 2 activities as he's entering MS  and will be pretty busy.  With ex-DH it is the matter of "pride" that he's "financially helping" out.

Now on the subject of "how do the stepkids and stepmom know where he goes and what he does?"  How's he supposed to hide it?  "What did you for spring break?" - "Umm, nothing" and show up with a Florida tan.  Why is he supposed to lie?

I did recommend he stop it with the gifts other than on birthdays, esp. since the type of gifts he gives them are so different from what he gets.  On his 12th birthday he got a set of coloring books!  Really?  He's a 12-yr boy, not a 5-yr girl.[/quote]

OP, I am sympathetic to your situation generally speaking, but you are not coming off great here either. You have gone out of your way to denigrate your ex's family's choices regarding whether his second wife works, how they parent the other children, and you went well out of your way to point out the many ways that you are a better parent. That may be true, but don't be so smug about it, even here. [/quote]

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