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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of women are simply just misinformed and unaware. Their husbands 160k salary can nicely float one household, not two. Or he only owes $x in child support when they thought it was going to be $yy. As cynical as this sounds, think about it this way, OP: are things bad enough with your husband that you're willing to leave the house and neighborhood you admit you love and go back to work, losing your SAHM friends (throw your married friends in there too, most of them) and working for survival, not just fun money? Are things bad enough with him that you will be willing to miss Christmas morning with your kids? I don't advocate staying married just to maintain a lifestyle but you made it clear yours is important to you and divorce means that WILL go away. [/quote] Yes, yes, yes. You'll miss kids sometimes. Friends don't know what to do or who to befriend, sometimes they just drop away so as to avoid picking sides. Or they pick HIM/HER. Ug. Family will stick by you, but are they even near? Working full time (which I do) sucks, but then if you have the WHOLE household to run, you've just halved your discretionary time, as well. [/quote]
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