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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, as someone who has played this game more than once, I can say with 100% confidence that this guy is NOT your friend. So, forget that idea.

You are a back-up girl, and he gets a self-esteem charge from knowing he can get your attention. That's it. He wants to think you are his. When he's confident of that, he'll ghost you until he senses you are pulling away. Then he'll come back and try to rope you in again. As you get increasingly frustrated, he will increase his attentions because he knows he has to. As soon as you relent, he'll back off again. This is not because he cares about you or because you are meant to be. It's because he needs attention. He may even be a sex or love addict. This is often how they work.

RUN. Run far, far, far away. Cut off contact completely. He's not worth your time. [/quote]

Thank you for your words, and I definitely considered them.  However, I have to say, it doesn't seem to fit in my case as I am kind of aloof (in general) so if it's validation or attention he's looking for, he's definitely not getting it from me.  [/quote]

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