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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Personally, 2-3 mo would be a hard time for me to enjoy being away for all the reasons PPs mentioned. But it's really a personal choice. The main thing I would say from reading your post is that you should try to address the guilt with a therapist. It's not helping your kids to be coming from a place of guilt, and I would imagine it doesn't help you to be clear on what you really want and need.[/quote] I don't feel guilt now that I stay home. I have 100% attendance for kid events and activities. I spend tons of quality time with my children. I know where my guilt comes from - my parents! Parents are very religious and always tried to make me feel guilty even when I shouldn't have to. I do feel bad about potentially leaving my young baby but I also know that bringing a small baby to the beach is miserable. one of the worst vacations we ever had was going to the beach with a 3 month old when second was born. We had no gear besides pack n play and a car seat stroller combo. We had to hold baby the entire time and it was like 90 degrees outside. It was hot enough without the baby and then you were just tired and hot holding the baby.[/quote]
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