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[quote=Anonymous]Unfortunately, you do not have a choice in the matter: it takes two to stay married, but only one to divorce. With that said, if you can (and if you want to stay married), try to talk about the issues. I am assuming you thought you had a good/ok marriage (based on being surprised). I am guessing the issue is you two do not communicate. For what it is worth, I am a DH. A few years ago, I was frustrated with my life, dealing with some life threatening issues, and wanted freedom. I started preparing for a divorce. I even told my wife I wanted one. In my case, though, I came to realize my unhappiness was not about my wife, but about my fear of dying. (I survived metastatic cancer and a near heart attack within a year). If you can, find out why he wants the divorce. Couples counseling can't hurt. Note: all of my above changes is abuse, cheating, or addiction is involved.[/quote]
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