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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's rude. And of their good friends you'd know already I know about all my friends plans/wishes to have kids or not. And not from asking them. [/quote]

The friends I am thinking of are way more children people than DH and me. DH and I didn't especially like kids before we had them. Of course we love our kids now.

They were all people I hung out with before I was married. [b]We moved to DC from NYC so I plan on seeing them when we go visit next week.[/b][/quote]

WTF OP. How is it any of your business? Someone who is excitedly trying and doesn't have fertility issues may in fact say to you -- yeah we're trying so hopefully by next Christmas, there'll be a baby at the table. If they don't bring it up - you don't bring it up. And if you lived in NYC you realize it's MUCH more common to NOT have kids there, right? People work a lot harder and play a lot harder and often don't want to take the steps back that you need to take to bring kids in . . . .[/quote]

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