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[quote=Anonymous]Well, first of all, his reaction "you might as well shoot me" was over-the-top and weird. This was red flag #1. Seriously, though, don't beat yourself up. You found out two months in - some people get fooled for years. Unless he came out and told you that you were the side chick, your intuition made you realize something was off. That speaks well of your cleverness and sound judgment. All you can do now to avoid this in the future is to examine what happened and learn from it. Were there signs during the first few dates that, in hindsight, indicated dishonesty or showed the thoughts and words of a user? Was he maybe a little TOO smooth, too eager, too invested in telling you what he thought you wanted to hear? Did he say anything off-kilter in a conversation that touched on previous relationships? Also, if you tend to date cheaters and jerks, think about the type of man you fall for and look for patterns. [/quote]
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