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[quote=Anonymous]Planning your future as a couple seems difficult. I know many times that plans of any kind just don't pan out- too may external factors neither you or he cannot possibly hope to control.

I would return from overseas and commit to six months to a year of counseling with a good counselor you both can work with.

If there is no infidelity, abuse, addiction within your marriage, learning to become a better team is possible. Three years is really not that long of a marriage, it takes time to learn how to do marriage.

Esp if you are attracted to him and your biggest issue is the future? Let me know if you can find a man who you can plan a future out with and you both know it's 100% I'd hazard a guess, after 25 years of marriage on my side, that such a man and such fool-proof planning is not reality.

Divorce is always there, but before you throw in the towel really think about the terrible moments most marriages weather. I don't know a couple who hasn't had a catastrophe of some kind. Good luck with whatever you decide.[/quote]

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