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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Infidelities of all kinds seem present in a huge percentage of marriages. How do those hurt get what they need after?[/quote] As a betrayed spouse I needed empathy, time to heal and honesty. And some very hard, frank discussions. It has been 2 years and I still hurt. I had a baby that died, and the affair hurt worse. PLEASE let that sink in if you are involved or considering an affair. I really cannot imagine something more painful[/quote] Not to completely invalidate your feelings here, but I also lost a child and that was, hands down, the most painful thing I've experienced. Way more painful than infidelity. It hurts. Sometimes it can't be made up to the spouse. Sometimes trust can't be rebuilt. There's no one size fits all answer. Time and transparency seem to be the most consistently helpful things. [/quote] I'm the PP. I'm sorry for your loss and the infidelity as well. [/quote]
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