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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry girl. You screwed up. I would take it as rejection if someone told me it "wasn't a date." Esp over a text. If you are that freaked out about dating and things being "awkward" then maybe you aren't ready to date.[/quote]

This.  It still doesn't make any sense that you were worried about a mutual friend finding out.  The whole purpose of dating is to see if you like the person enough to have a relationship.  At any point, the answer might be no, but you approach it as getting to know someone not that it won't last past date one or the other extreme of planning a wedding on date 1.  I wouldn't even say that I'm dating someone, as opposed to going out on dates, unless it's somewhat consistent and at least four or five dates.  So anyway, it's no big deal if you go out on a date with a mutual friend unless it has been long enough or serious enough and someone breaks up and dates another person in the circle like you see on tv like Melrose Place.  Or someone does something crazy that doesn't speak well of his or her character and it gets back to the circle of friends.

Agree with other posters that you need to go back and ask him out on a date and apologize for the awkwardness.[/quote]

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