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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to grow up fast OP.  You have a very unsupportive family.  Come to grips with it.  You'll have to make it pretty much on your own.

If you ever have kids, try to be a better parent than yours were.[/quote]

I am. I work and live on my own. It's upsetting that at family parties they tell my family members that their upset I'm not doîng mire for myself, but refuse to help. I was physically and sexually abused as a child which left me unable to have children. I was recently diagnosed with MS. My parents don't care.  [/quote]

OP, my heart goes out to you. It sounds like you're really angry that no one will acknowledge that you got the shit end of the stick, so to speak. I'm very sorry that you got dealt this deck of cards. I also have terrible childhood story of my own, and it took me a long time to move on from the anger.

In fact, I think it's a good sign that you see the situation for what it is. That is an important first stage. But the pp's are right - you eventually need to stop looking to them for any kind of support whatsoever - it does not look like you're going to get it, and pining for it is going to hold you back.

You may need to cut contact for the forseeable future. Don't do it aggressively or bitterly, but back away until you are satisfied enough with your own life that being around them doesn't piss you the eff off.

Hugs to you OP, I am sorry that you have to deal with the shittiness that is our world at times. You deserve better, and now you have the chance to give everything you deserve to yourself. 
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PP, I don't get the anger you're seeing in the OP's posts. She's not coming across as angry. Hurt, yes, and justifiably so.

OP, it sounds like you're doing all of the right things in a really horrible situation. You absolutely deserve better, and I hope you get to a place where you experience better. [/quote]

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